The relationship between husband and wife is very important. To oil the relationship, the duo must be observant to put up germane attitudes and behaviours to maintain the cordiality. Though the husband has roles to play, the wife should keep to these commandments to ignite the love of her spouse.
1). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. Such will bounce back on you.
2). Never raise your voice for any reason against your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect.
3). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him because it is important to many men.
4). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband; you never know how your husband will interpret them.
5). Do not compare your husband to other men. You have no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for you will diminish.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid; do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband; people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never accuse your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
10). Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.
11). Never allow your randy friends to be too close to your husband.
12). Never challenge your husband in front of the children. Wise women don’t do that.
(Culled from Anietie Ukpe’s World)
