As their marriage crashed before their first wedding anniversary, Isreal Afeare, the logistics manager of singer Davido, has cursed any man who will marry his estranged wife, Sheila.
The couple got married in October 2022.
In a lengthy post shared on his Instagram page, Isreal said he met Sheila as a ‘’Broke girl” who told him no sex before marriage as she is the daughter of an evangelist. He said he abided by her rules and went over and beyond to provide Sheila with the best life.
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He alleged that Sheila began showing her true colour after their wedding by wanting to set standards for him. He stated that Sheila told him while they were married that she was a ‘’full slave” to Davido” and that he derives ‘’dignity in begging oga”.
Isreal stated that Sheila told him that he was disgracing her on social media. He accused her mother of being ‘’wicked’ to him during their time as a couple.
He cursed the day they met and also cursed any man who will marry her in future.
Isreal regrets
In his detailed account, Israel DMW revealed that Sheila left their home on August 8, 2023, despite his substantial support since their marriage.
Isreal also detailed acts of generosity, such as providing financial support, upgrading her phone, and indulging in shopping sprees for her.
Despite these efforts, he described a shift in Sheila’s behaviour after their wedding, where she sought to impose standards on him, believing she had achieved status as a prominent figure on Instagram.
Additionally, Israel DMW pointed out that marrying someone from a Christian background and being a virgin did not ensure peace in his case.
He highlighted that his wife accused him of being a slave to his boss, Davido.
“Marrying a lady because you met her during evangelism as a virgin, a pastor’s daughter, a member of the same Winners Chapel church, might not guarantee anything peace at all. Don’t be too eager or quick to trust people. People can change at any time.
“People can be very ungrateful and deceptive. I met Sheila on February 19, 2022. We became friends, which later became intimate.
“She told me she would only lose her virginity to the man that would marry her since her Ugep, Cross River, mother, who’s now 41, had earlier married two different men, with two kids, before marrying her father and that she was overdue at 21 for marriage.
“We fully agreed with her terms and conditions. I immediately upgraded her unkempt situation by giving her 300k and replacing her tattered phone of less than 60k with a new iPhone 12 Pro Max of 860k in less than two weeks.
“I later also replaced the 12 Pro Max with a brand 14 Pro Max of 1.2m that she uses to slay. I did a lot of shopping for her.
“Bought her clothes and bags, including expensive human hairs she’s using without sleeping with her then. I later proposed, and she fully accepted. We later did a legal introduction to traditional and white weddings in Benin City.
“Sheila immediately changed by showing her authentic self after our wedding and wanting to set standards for me. She now felt she was blown as Juju’s wife, fully verified on Instagram, with more followers from her earlier struggling 3k followers when I met her.
“A fully sapa girl I met with just 2,700 in her account. I have never raised my hands on her any day. I don’t beat women at all. I respect them so much. The least money for her upkeep was 100k. She now wakes up to tell me that I derive dignity in begging my oga, that I am fully a slave, and that I am disgracing her on social media.
“I had earlier taken her to show same oga for the first time before we wedded when we were in Abuja Transcorp Hilton, and oga asked her straight forward if she was ready for marriage, and she fully answered by saying yes and oga immediately gave her 500k for airtime. Oga was fully present in Benin for my wedding, after cancelling a 140m show appearance. Oga,” he said.
Sheila reacts
Responding, Sheila dismissed claims that she deceived Isreal into marrying her. She also dismissed claims that when he came into her life he made it better for her and her parents as they were living comfortably before she met him.
Sheila stated that anything Isreal did for her and her family members was voluntary as he was never coerced to do them. She disclosed that Isreal stormed her mother’s shop yesterday November 24 with boys to collect a generator and phone he apparently purchased for her when they were still together.
She hinted that she was constantly being locked out of their matrimonial home for no reason, constantly threatened and also suffered multiple panic attacks. She suggested that Isreal also accused her of taking pills not to get pregnant and deprived her of doing anything. She stated that Isreal never wanted to be accountable for anything, not even the money that was sprayed on them at their wedding. Sheila mentioned that she tried to push him to be productive but he was always defensive, saying ‘’them no dey control Edo man”
The estranged wife dismissed claims that she had issues with Isreal serving his boss Davido.
Sheila said as a wife, she was only pushing for her husband to have his own business aside from serving Davido but he refused.
According to her, she even gave him several ideas on what to do that would generate income for him but he wasn’t interested, pointing out that his own family was fully in support of this as it is a concern to them as well.
