A Cambridge scholar, Mkpouto Pius, has shaded a Nigerian man for lacking a good Intelligence Quotient (IQ) to understand her for saying 98 per cent of Nigerian men cannot be like the husband of Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala.
Ms Pius, a Nigerian who did her first degree at the University of Calabar had taken to social media to celebrate the husband of the DG of the World Trade Organization WTO who turned 70 years old recently.
In her post, Pius said Mr Okonjo-Iweala’s celebration of his wife’s 70th birthday, gave men the opportunity to remind women that they can be everything they want to be whilst still being married.
She stated that a lot of Nigerian men liked Mr Okonjo-Iweala’s message to his wife, however instead of men throwing such analogue around, they should sit back and ask themselves what they have been able to make their wives achieve after getting married to them.
Pius reasoned that most Nigerian men have a deep-seated inferiority complex and cannot be like Okonjo-Iweala’s husband who isn’t threatened by her popularity or position.
According to her, ‘‘Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala celebrated her 70th birthday yesterday and Nigerian alpha males took that as an opportunity to advise women as usual.
She chided ‘‘Telling us that you can be married and still achieve your dreams.
Me: 😂😂😂😂
Sir, don’t use another woman as example. Use your wife!
Yes. Show us what your wife has achieved since she married you.
Let’s be very clear about this, 98% of Nigerian men cannot be like this woman’s husband.
Yes I pulled the stats out of my armpit. Bite me.
A large majority of these men suffer very deep-seated inferiority complex.
How many of you can marry a woman who is far well known than you, and you agree to dissolve into obscurity and support her quietly from the background?
How many? Raise your hands let’s count 🙋🏽♂️
I have heard a Nigerian man say that he can’t marry a woman who is working because she will not respect him.
Imagine if such a man was married to Ngozi. She would have had to either divorce him or never become DG of World Bank
So I’m telling you what I know.
Ngozi went to Harvard. I know how difficult it is to go to schools like that. Very intense. Cambridge almost broke me. You barely have time to do anything other than study.
And from what I read, her husband was in her life when she went to Harvard.
Do you think Ngozi was cooking fresh meals everyday and pounding yam daily so that her husband can feel like “head of the house”?
She would not have had the time to be washing his pants daily and still do all the career gigs she did to lead her to her current exalted position.
As someone who moves around a lot and is constantly trying to build my CV so that I can step into big leadership shoes soon, I know that it is TIME CONSUMING.
You need a partner who understands that cooking and cleaning are too small for you spend all your valuable time on. There are bigger things in the future and you need to be investing your time now, building credibility for that future.
How many of you know this woman’s husband? Very few. He’s rarely seen.
You rarely hear him pop up like an impromptu erection seeking attention.
He lets his wife LEAD like the leader that she is.
Even look at this picture. Let’s analyze their body language.
He has his hands behind him and he is standing behind her as a supporter. He is not trying to steal her limelight.
Look at the DG. She has her hands in front of her, her head is held high, and she is in front of the man, as the confident leader that she is. Standing in her full power and glory.
This man’s posture is what you people are now calling “simping”. But see how this man is simping his way into being the husband of the most powerful woman in Africa.
But you that won’t allow your wife buy car side mirror in her own name, you’re comparing yourself to this man.
Please carry your fragile ego problems and stay in the corner.
It’s because of men like you that we do not have a lot more Ngozi Okonjo-Iwealas. You’ve suppressed them with your fragile ego.
What you need to focus your energy on is advising more men to be like this man.
Advise your comrades to get used to not controlling another person. Let the woman you date or marry be free to express herself how she pleases.
That’s how you raise a crop of women who will take on leadership without fear.
Happy birthday super woman and happy birthday to the premium co-celebrant. Abeg organise Masterclass for Nigerian alpha males. Mbok”’
However, a Nigerian man, Ikenna Nwaogwugwu, felt her post was unnecessary as it projected women as ‘’inadequate and lacking healthy self-esteem.”
Pius spotted his comment and took him to the cleaners. Making reference to him being a graduate of the Abia State University ABSU, Pius said Ikenna lacks a good IQ to understand her point of view.
She averred that his IQ is a reflection of the school he it’s been a while I did a hall of shame. So here we go.
So, Mr Ikenna that went to ABSU is telling me that I don’t have Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala’s brain.
Let me do small analysis. Abia State University (ABSU) is where people go when they cannot get into a Federal University.
ABSU is one of the most lowly ranked universities in Nigeria. I didn’t create those rankings, I’m just telling you what I have seen in the ranking index.
It is very easy to get into ABSU. No high IQ required, as long as you can pay fees, you’re in.
It’s mostly for Federal University rejects.
This man tells me, that attended The University of Cambridge on a full scholarship from Bill Gates Foundation, that I don’t have high IQ
Cambridge that will not admit you if you didn’t make a First class, and very high one.
Ikenna Nwaogwugwu here would never even be admitted to Cambridge as a toilet cleaner.
If “pot calling a kettle black” was a person, it would be Ikenna in the suit.
Wisdom requires that before you shade someone, you check their profile first so you can know the correct things to say. But how can I expect wisdom from a Federal University reject?
You wear suit like better person, but na for Abia state your sense stop
I like to see people’s low self-esteem pushing them to embarrass their family in public.
You wanted my attention, now you have it. Enjoy.
